INSIGHTS
#1. Grace is power.
It’s forgiving yourself when you mess up.
Apologizing to your kids.
Letting go of perfection and choosing connection.
#2. "The journey into self-love and self-acceptance must begin with self-examination… until you take the journey of self-reflection, it is almost impossible to grow or learn in life." - Iyanla Vanzant.
#3. Check on People When They Go “Quiet.” You never know what is going on in someone's life, so check on people when they least expect it.
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Making Every Moment Count
How death motivates a life of meaning
Steve Jobs, a visionary who reshaped the world with his innovations, once said, “Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life.” His reflection on mortality was a constant reminder of decisions that were not clouded by fear but driven by what truly mattered.
Jobs’ perspective on death is a poignant reminder to live deliberately, choosing paths that align with our deepest passions and values.
There is a hard truth that shadows every step we take — the realization that none of us will make it out of this life alive.
I don’t say that to dampen your spirit or to dwell on the morose. Instead, let that realization be a powerful catalyst for living with purpose, passion, and intensity.
The secret to life, then, is not about the longevity of our existence but the depth and richness of our experiences.
Embracing Mortality
The inevitability of death is a universal truth, one that touches every life without prejudice or pause. Yet, this very inevitability gives life its value and urgency.
Understanding that our time is finite motivates us to seize the day and make the most of our moments. It encourages us to live fully, not in fear of death, but in celebration of life.
EVERY MOMENT COUNTS!
Making Moments Count
Life is a collection of moments, each a fleeting chance to experience, love, and grow.
Making these moments count means engaging fully with life, embracing opportunities for joy and connection, and pursuing passions with enthusiasm.
It’s about choosing to live authentically, aligning actions with values, and finding beauty in the ordinary.
Living the Life You Want
The realization that we never make it out alive should not lead us into despair but rather inspire us to live our desired life. This involves introspection and honesty about what brings us happiness and fulfillment.
It’s about setting goals that resonate with our deepest selves and taking steps, however small, toward achieving them each day.
Instead of watching others achieve their goals, always strive to live vicariously through yourself, going after what you truly want.
Overcoming Fear
Fear often holds us back from living fully. The fear of failure, rejection, or the unknown can paralyze us, preventing us from taking risks or stepping out of our comfort zones. However, acknowledging our mortality can help us overcome these fears.
When we realize that we have only one life to live, the risk of not trying becomes greater than the fear of failure.
The Power of Now
The present moment is all we truly have. Dwelling on past regrets or worrying about future uncertainties only detracts from the richness of now. Embracing the present involves:
Mindfulness and gratitude.
Recognizing the beauty around us.
Appreciating the simple pleasures of life.
It’s in the now that we find the joy and peace that make life worth living.
Building Connections
Human connections are at the heart of a meaningful life.
Building solid relationships with family, friends, and community provides support, love, and a sense of belonging. These connections enrich our lives, offering comfort in times of sorrow and amplifying joy in moments of happiness. Cherishing and nurturing these relationships is paramount to living a fulfilling life.
Leaving a Legacy
While we may not make it out alive, we have the power to leave a lasting impact. A legacy isn’t necessarily about fame or fortune but about the difference we make in the lives of others. It is found in the kindness we show, the love we share, and how we contribute to improving the world.
Our legacy is what endures beyond our physical presence, a testament to the life we live.
Call to Action: Live Intentionally
As you contemplate the certainty of death, let it not be a source of fear but a motivation to live with intention and purpose. Ask yourself: Are you living the life you want? Are you making your moments count? If not, now is the time to start.
Set goals that matter to you pursue passions with zeal and build meaningful relationships. Live each day as if it were your last, for in doing so, you’ll create a life rich in experiences and full of joy.
Remember, the secret to life is realizing you never make it out alive. So, make your moments count and live the life you’ve always wanted. The time is now.
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BOOK OF THE WEEK
Originally written in 1938 but not published until 2011, Outwitting the Devil is a bold and provocative follow-up to Hill’s classic Think and Grow Rich. In this book, Hill imagines a fictional interview with "the Devil," whom he forces to reveal the psychological tricks that keep people from achieving success and freedom. The book explores themes of fear, self-doubt, and mental slavery, and how to break free.
I was hesitant about this book as I thought it was a rehash of his other material, similar to "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" being great and his other follow-up being an attempt to grab the genie in the bottle again or at least an attempt to sell a course. However, I was pleasantly surprised with this book's concept—especially the "drifting" portion.
1- The Key Concept: “Drifting”
The Devil reveals his most powerful tool for controlling humans: drifting.
Drifters are people who:
Lack definite purpose in life.
Go with the flow, following the crowd.
Let fear, procrastination, and distractions dictate their path.
Avoid critical thinking and never take control of their minds.
Allow schools, religion, media, and societal pressure to shape their beliefs without questioning.
The Devil brags that he controls 98% of people through drifting. By keeping people aimless, reactive, and afraid to think independently, he keeps them from reaching their full potential.
“The man who thinks for himself never drifts, while the man who drifts never thinks for himself.”
2. The Antidote: Definiteness of Purpose
Hill argues that the only way to outwit the Devil is by becoming a non-drifter—someone who:
Has clear goals and acts on them daily.
Thinks critically and independently.
Maintains self-discipline and is not easily swayed by fear.
Lives with intentionality, especially in thought, time, and action.
💡 Takeaway
Drifting is the silent destroyer of dreams. To overcome it, you must:
Decide exactly what you want in life.
Build habits that serve your vision.
Guard your mind from outside manipulation.
Keep learning, questioning, and growing.
Hill’s message is clear: freedom begins with taking control of your mind.
Well worth the read.
Strategy
Curate Your Inputs
Your brain is a sponge — what you consume shapes how you think.
Audit everything:
Podcasts
YouTube channels
Instagram accounts
Friends
If it doesn’t align with your future self, cut it out.
QUESTION
What are you doing to live your best life today?